Welcome to my website. I hope that by coming here you will find the first step on your journey to healing your issues: marital discord, depression, anxiety, anger management or…  Here you will gain some insight to who I am and how I do therapy/counseling. Maybe I will be the right therapist for you. If so, I look forward to hearing from you.

You have just taken the first step in hopefully resolving your issues. I know it was probably very difficult for you to make the decision to look for help – it usually is. There are also so many therapists and so many therapeutic approaches to choose from. I am not going to try to “sell” you on my particular therapeutic approach, mostly because I use various approaches for various individuals depending upon their needs. I try to look at the person and what their issues are. I don’t like dealing with labels (such as diagnoses) – I feel that it “objectifies” the person. You are not a label – you are a real person with real issues in need of real help.

On this website you will find some indication as to the approaches I use, but more importantly you will hopefully discover the person that I am. Hopefully the articles and videos will give you some idea as to whether I am the person that you can feel most comfortable working with. Because, that is the issue: more than 75% of the success in therapy has to do with the relationship that has developed between the therapist and the client. You need to be comfortable with me!

Enjoy my site and I hope to talk to you soon.

For more information about our counseling services, give me a call today or contact me  by email using our contact form.

Ole von Frausing-Borch, LMFT
301 South Miller St. Suite 112   Santa Maria CA 93454
Tel:  805-202-9335



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  1. Jennifer

    Hi my name is Jennifer, I’m asking for help. My husband and I have 3 young children. Been married for 8 years. We’re having issues right now my insurance doesn’t cover any help. Recently I caught him in lies. He was texting and calling a female coworker way too much. He went out with her one night for 4 hours ( telling me he was with a male friend) the next afternoon he met her somewhere again. ( telling me he met male coworkers. He’s broken my trust.possibility of cheating). But I just don’t trust him he’s trying to say he didn’t cheat but with a lot of lies I just don’t believe him. But I love my husband I want to move past this but I just do not know how. I’m so hurt, angry I hate him so much right now.. That he’s even put me in this position. I know this will be ongoing sessions .. I’m asking you how much are you for your help per session?


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